Parents play a vital role in our life. They have taken care
of us right from the moment we were in the womb. They loved us so much that
they were willing to undergo any amount of pain and suffering so as to see us
grow happily. All our dads like Superman have slogged hard at their various work
fields and have been good breadwinners for the family.
On the
other hand our moms like Cat woman have been protecting us from all kinds of
evil and vices. They have helped our growth process and have always been there
by our side both in good and in bad times. Our parents are the springboard
through whom we reach God. Most of our knowledge about God comes from our
practical experience with our parents.
When we
are small we love and listen to our parents. We do as they ask; their smallest
wish becomes a command for us. However as we grow, we start disagreeing with
our parents, we begin to disobey, back answer and also disrespect them. We feel
suppressed by what our parents say and feel that our private space is being
violated. The result is that there is disharmony, disunity and disturbance in
the family.
However
as we grow further on in years, we realize that what our parents did at that
moment in time was correct. Most of our family problems and breakdown occur due
to the communication gap in the family. In some families communication itself doesn’t
exist and hence all problems begin.
We need
to get back to the basics of family life like going together for a family
dinner, outing or even a simple heart to heart dialogue. Speaking and letting
out emotions in a way helps the person himself/ herself and also communicates
what a person is going through.
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